Does it ever amaze people when the get deeply upset because you try and correct them on an inappropriate comment? One of my friends got so upset when I told him I wasn't too happy when he commented gay on my heartfelt status about my anniversary of meeting my husband. Apparently, he got so offended and since then he hasn't really spoken to me. I mean he's my friend and we've been friends for a very long time, since high school in fact. I just don't understand this at all, I thought being friends meant giving a person the security to be truthful at times when something they said bothers you. I mean, friends are supposed to be this wonderful addition to one's life by providing support, bringing courage and strength at times, and there for a good laugh and smile when you're down in the dumps. They just bring something to the table that no other type of relationship could bring. You could even say that they become a very intricate part of our lives, that if they were to leave, it would sadden us because there's a void that has been left in our hearts. But even sometimes no matter how badly we don't wish for them to go, sometimes they just have to, whether or not we understand it our why. But when they do, they will forever leave an imprint on our heart and life. So again brings me back to my opening, does this mean with them acting as such, it may be time to say farewell? I guess in time, it will be revealed. Have a blessed day.....
